This week I want to talk about the choreography of the ceremony, being a celebrant in Tenerife I feel its important to run through every last detail of your ceremony.so during the rehearsal or pre ceremony meet we will talk about the choreography, gone are the days when a bride and groom stood with the backs to their guests!! it´s all about facing the people you love whilst listening to the celebrant, I like to call the choreographed ceremonies my three way tango, again we work together to make it a perfectly timed dance that is smooth, no tripping, no falling, no fainting and no muttering (on my part!!)
How ever buy the time I leave the meet, my couples have forgotten what I have said and look at me like rabbits caught in the head lights on the wedding day panicking as they cant remember what they are supposed to do.
All I say to them is…..relax!! ill tell you when to stand,sit,smile frown!!
Once all of this has been achieved, the walking back down the aisle as man and wife is the most easiest thing you have ever done, you wonder what all the stress has been about, more importantly you actually remember the ceremony, it’s not just a blur and you can carry on the rest of your lives looking back at the fact that you have the ceremony you have always dreamed of.